what mistake??

The alchemy of attitude will allow you to turn even the worst situations into solid gold.
“The perfect is the enemy of the good.” – Voltaire, La Bégueule
A guest post by Joe
We’ve all been there.
Happy at the end of a long day or week. Maybe it was Murphy’s touch. Like the Midas touch, only instead of turning to gold, everything you touch becomes something brown and smelly.
One day I made a couple of bad decisions that proved Murphy’s Law. At the end of that day I was debating going to CSF class or happy hour…
Despite temptation I went to CSF class and I messed up my lead on X turn pattern and my follow did not know what to do. Perhaps it was because I was cleaning up mistakes all day, but what happened next was not what I usually do. As a new lead in this position, I usually hit the reset button and start over in either closed or open position.
But this time we kept going, what mistake?
That’s when it clicked. The reason we take apart and explore turn patterns in class is so I can easily flow into something else if a mistake occurs.
I saw another example of this at a salsa social a few weeks ago when a follow lost control of her spin and spun a lot further away from her lead then she intended to, the lead adjusted his steps and caught her and they went on like it was exactly what they intended to do.
What made a real impression on me is that we don’t have to be perfect. We always try to do it right in class (and it ALWAYS comes out perfect) but outside of class, if it doesn’t come out right, what mistake? Only you and your partner may know what you intended to do.
Something will always go wrong, but that is not the test of how good you are at anything!
The real test is what happens next. Do you panic? Do you start over? Or, do you take a different approach, by saying “what mistake?”
I just have to remind myself that some of the things that I am most thankful for being in my life are the ones that I discovered by accident, what mistake?


